Skip to content
  • Home
  • About this Blog
  • Bio
  • Ward Church
  • Commenting Policy
« Older posts

A Tribute to Dr. Carole Halmekangas

By Scott McKee | Published: May 8, 2012

At the end of June, Carole Halmekangas will retire as our Director of Traditional Worship after 45 years of service to Ward Church. Since coming to Ward three years ago, I have marveled at her incredible gifts and grace. I have worked with many musicians over the years, but none more talented than Carole. Music is a part of her and seems to flow effortlessly through her. However, the amazing talent Carole possesses isn’t even the best part about her. Carole has a winsome grace-filled walk with Jesus that permeates her life. It is unusual for one so gifted to walk with such humility. It has been a great privilege to serve Christ with Carole. I have found in her a kindred spirit that understands the joys and challenges of ministry.

Our friend Carole avoids the limelight and squirms under public recognition. I invite you to join me in “silently” honoring her by posting a tribute to her ministry. Let her know how she has brightened your life and lifted your spirit. All of the posts will be printed and included in a book for Carole.

  • Facebook
  • Twitter
  • Share
Posted in Uncategorized | 7 Comments

What Did Jesus Say About Sex?

By Scott McKee | Published: April 22, 2012

In this morning’s sermon, “What Did Jesus Say About Sex?” I recommended a few resources that I want to remind you about.

For married couples looking for a guide to sexuality and intimacy, I recommend a book by Christian authors and therapists, Clifford and Joyce Penner, called, The Gift of Sex: A Guide to Sexual Fulfillment.

For men looking for small groups or mentoring, check out www.wardmen.org, the men’s ministry of Ward Church. If you want to go it on your own, ask a male friend to form an accountability partnership by adding some accountability questions to your conversations.

Top Book Picks for Everyone (from the Every Man Series):

  • Every Man’s Battle: Winning the War on Sexual Temptation One Victory at a Time, by Stephen Arterburn and Fred Stoeker
  • Every Young Man’s Battle: Strategies for Victory in the Real World of Sexual Temptation, by Stephen Arterburn
  • Every Woman’s Battle: Discovering God’s Plan for Sexual and Emotional Fulfillment, by Shannon Ethridge and Stephen Arterburn
  • Every Young Woman’s Battle: Guarding Your Mind, Heart, and Body in a Sex-Saturated World, by Shannon Ethridge and Stephen Arterburn

Top Picks for Teens:

  • Good Sex by Kara Powell Jim Hancock
  • My Changes (Middle School Survival Series) by Mark Oestreicher and Scott Rubin
  • Preparing for Adolescence: How to Survive the Coming Years of Change, Dr. James Dobson Ph.D
  • Facebook
  • Twitter
  • Share
Posted in Recommended Resources, Sermon Conversations | Tagged Gift of Sex, sex, What did Jesus say? | 1 Comment

Video Blog 4/2/12 – Easter Week

By Scott McKee | Published: April 2, 2012

Hello Ward Church friends!

Easter week is upon us! There is much to be excited about as we remember and celebrate the death and resurrection of our Savior, Jesus Christ!

Watch my short video blog update below and refer to the list for links and resources.

  1. Invite your friends to Easter Services! http://www.facebook.com/events/214717491961409/
  2. Help make room for guests to Ward Church on Easter Sunday by giving up your seat at the “prime time” services by coming to the 8 a.m. Service in the Sanctuary.
  3. Help traffic flow on peak Sundays by sitting down in the center of the rows.
  4. PRAY! Pray all week long that God will use what happens on Easter Sunday to make a difference in people’s lives.
  5. Don’t forget about our Maundy Thursday and Good Friday Services. http://bit.ly/HbqvrL

See you this week!

Scott

  • Facebook
  • Twitter
  • Share
Posted in Video Blog | 2 Comments

Video Blog Update – Wednesday, March 21, 2012

By Scott McKee | Published: March 21, 2012

Greetings everyone!

I’m beginning a new video blog format in hopes of quickly keeping you up-to-date on important things happening here at Ward. So watch the video below and refer to the resource links for further information.

  1. Regional Prayer Rally, April 1, 6:00 p.m. at three locations
  2. Get your 2WordStory gear, prepare your story, and pray for opportunities.
  3. Get involved in good deeds. Visit EACHToday.com for serving opportunities that your family, friends, and small group can join in on. Learn more about how you, your family, friends, and small group/adult life group can help out with MotorCity Makeover during April and May.

I am praying for you. I can’t wait to see what God does!

-Scott

  • Facebook
  • Twitter
  • Share
Posted in Video Blog | 1 Comment

Lord’s Prayer Paraphase

By Scott McKee | Published: February 26, 2012

This morning at Ward Church, we launch a new sermon series on the Lord’s Prayer. This prayer has become one of the greatest treasures of God’s people for 2000 years.

I like Dallas Willard’s paraphrase of the Lord’s Prayer, especially for those for whom the Lord’s Prayer has become all too familiar and routine. A fresh paraphrase can help us grasp the lesson in every line.

Dear Father always near us,
may your name be treasured and loved,
may your rule be completed in us-
may your will be done here on earth in
just the way it is done in heaven.
Give us today the things we need today,
and forgive us our sins and impositions on you
as we are forgiving all who in any way offend us.
Please don’t put us through trials,
but deliver us from everything bad.
Because you are the one is charge,
and you have all the power, and the glory too is all yours-forever-
which is just the way we want it!

  • Facebook
  • Twitter
  • Share
Posted in Sermon Conversations | 1 Comment

Ward Leadership Summit 2012

By Scott McKee | Published: January 12, 2012

The Ward Leadership Summit is just 24 hours away! There is still time to join me Friday night from 7-8:30 p.m. and Saturday morning from 9 a.m. – 1 p.m.  The event is for Christian leaders and will feature videocast sessions by Bill Hybels, Alan Hirsch, and Francis Chan.

You may or may not think of yourself as a leader, but the truth is you lead something. You may lead a class, or a group, or a team. You may be part of a board, or a committee, or a task force. You may lead kids, or teens, or adults. You may be paid, or unpaid, or underpaid. You may lead in the church, in your business, or in your community. You may lead formally or informally.

Leadership matters. No matter what your sphere of influence, how you lead really matters to your group and to God. John Maxwell says, “Everything rises and falls on leadership.” Organizations and groups are only as effective as their leaders.  That is why leadership development is so important.  The Ward Leadership Summit is designed to inspire, develop, and stretch leaders. You will hear (via video) from some leading Christian thinkers and authors. You will be affirmed and challenged in your role as a leader in the church. You will have the opportunity to interact with other Ward leaders and with me about the group you lead and about Ward Church as a whole.

Didn’t get an invitation? Come as my guest. There is no cost for the event. Unfortunately, there will be no childcare available for those who are attending last-minute. I hope you will join me for this thought-provoking weekend!

Schedule:

Friday 7:00 – 8:30 p.m.

Session One            “The High Drama of Decision Making,” by Bill Hybels

(From the Willow Creek Leadership Summit)

Saturday, 9:00 – 1:00 p.m.

Session Two            “Living in the Land of AND,” by Alan Hirsch

(9:00 to 10:30) (From the AND Conference at Granger Community Church)

Session Three            “Leading Beyond Comfort,” by Francis Chan

(11:00 to 12:00) (From the Right Now Conference)

Session Four            “Leaders in the Know: Ward Leader Update”

live by Scott McKee (12:15 to 1:00 pm)

  • Facebook
  • Twitter
  • Share
Posted in Leadership and Vision | Leave a comment

“Justice” is a Bible Word

By Scott McKee | Published: November 5, 2011

Last Sunday, I spoke about how the gospel shapes us for justice and mercy.  I am aware that in certain religions circles “justice” is a loaded term, thought to be something only for liberals and hippies.  However, “justice” is a biblical word.  In fact, it is in every part of the Bible. Whether you’re in the Law, Psalms, Proverbs, Prophets, Gospels, or Epistles, it is there.

In my Sunday sermon, we looked primarily at Isaiah 58:5-10.  But here is a quick rundown of some other biblical references to justice.

Exodus 23:2, “Do not pervert justice by siding with the crowd..”

Exodus 23:5-7, “Do not deny justice to your poor people in their lawsuits.”

Leviticus 19:15, ‘Do not pervert justice; do not show partiality to the poor or favoritism to the great, but judge your neighbor fairly.”

Deuteronomy 16:20, “Follow justice and justice alone…”

Deuteronomy 24:17, “Do not deprive the alien or the fatherless of justice..”

Deuteronomy 27:19, “Cursed is the man who withholds justice from the alien, the fatherless or the widow.”
Psalm 140:12, “I know that the LORD secures justice for the poor and upholds the cause of the needy.”

Proverbs 29:7, “The righteous care about justice for the poor, but the wicked have no such concern.”

Isaiah 1:17, “…learn to do right! Seek justice, encourage the oppressed. Defend the cause of the fatherless, plead the case of the widow.

Isaiah 10:1-3, “Woe to those who make unjust laws, to those who issue oppressive decrees, to deprive the poor of their rights and withhold justice from the oppressed of my people…

Hosea 12:5, “But you must return to your God; maintain love and justice, and wait for your God always.”

Amos 5:24, “But let justice roll on like a river, righteousness like a never-failing stream!”

Micah 6:8, “He has showed you, O man, what is good. And what does the LORD require of you? To act justly and to love mercy and to walk humbly with your God.”

Zechariah 7:8-10, “This is what the LORD Almighty says: ‘Administer true justice; show mercy and compassion to one another. 10 Do not oppress the widow or the fatherless, the alien or the poor.”

Matthew 23:23, “Woe to you, teachers of the law and Pharisees, you hypocrites! You give a tenth of your spices—mint, dill and cummin. But you have neglected the more important matters of the law—justice, mercy and faithfulness. You should have practiced the latter, without neglecting the former.”

Not only do we get a sense of how important justice is to God by the frequency by which the concept appears, but we also get a sense of how passionate God is for justice by looking at the language, the force of the language that He uses when He talks about it.

 Justice matters to God!

  • Facebook
  • Twitter
  • Share
Posted in Sermon Conversations | Tagged Bible, justice | 4 Comments

What is the Gospel?

By Scott McKee | Published: October 22, 2011

Our church is currently in a study based on Tim Keller’s book, The Gospel in Life.  This leads to the question, “What is the Gospel?”  The truth is the Gospel is larger than most Christians realize. 

The word “gospel” of course means “good news,” but what exactly is the good news that Jesus proclaimed?  Most American evangelicals may say the good news is “you get to go to heaven when you die,” but that is only part of the gospel.  Jesus said, in Luke 4:43, “I must preach the good news of the kingdom of God…because this is why I was sent.”  The good news is that the kingdom of God is present and available now and forever through reliance on Jesus.  We get to experience life with Jesus in the kingdom of God.  Jesus said, “I have come that you may have life” (John 10:10).  This includes, of course, the forgiveness of sins and the promise of heaven, but it is more than that.  As a Christian, I must trust Jesus for everything, not just for what happens when I die.

The Gospel in Life curriculum has been relentless in reminding us that grace changes everything.  Grace changes the way we think about money, success, family, work, and worship.   Tim Keller frequently asks, “Have you allowed the gospel to shape you?”  Living as gospel people means we live in the reality of a new kingdom with a whole new perspective. 

Dallas Willard writes:

The new birth should be seen as an entrance into the kingdom of God. John Chapter 3 is not a ‘forgiveness of sins’ passage but a new life from above passage. Forgiveness from sins is essential – but it is not the whole package.

We must help people receive and embrace “the whole package.”  The gospel must include regeneration, not just justification.  New life is available.  In Christ, you and I can be fully alive.  In Christ, you and I can live now in the Kingdom of God that Jesus proclaimed.  Jesus ushered in a whole new reality.  Jesus said, “Seek first the kingdom of God…” (Matthew 6:33) and Paul reminds us that Jesus, “has delivered us from the domain of darkness and transferred us to the kingdom of his beloved Son” (Colossians 1:13).  The point of discipleship is to help us live now in the Kingdom of God.  If the gospel were only about entering heaven when we die, discipleship would not be necessary.  A “whole-package” gospel says, “Put your confidence and trust in Jesus and live with him as a disciple now in the Kingdom of God and forever with Him in heaven.”

How would you define “Gospel?”  How have you seen the Gospel reduced to a partial gospel?  How would a “whole-package” Gospel change the way we live?

  • Facebook
  • Twitter
  • Share
Posted in Q & A, Random Thoughts, Sermon Conversations, Theology | Tagged Dallas Willard, Gospel, Gospel in Life, Tim Keller | 5 Comments

Let’s Roll

By Scott McKee | Published: September 11, 2011

Today is the 10th anniversary of 911.   The images of that horrific day have been playing on television all week, but they have been replaying in my mind for a decade.  No one will forget where they were September 11, 2001 when they first heard the news.  I was at a breakfast appointment in downtown Mount Pleasant when I saw on the old television mounted on the restaurant wall the image of a tower hit by an airplane. In that moment, I did not realize the magnitude of what had just happened.  I said goodbye to my friend and headed to the office.  Over the next few hours, the shocking story would unfold.  Our church staff gathered to pray.  We were bewildered, confused, and deeply sad.

Then it got personal.

My family and I lived in central New Jersey from 1991-1997.  I was an associate pastor in Princeton during much of this time.  We knew many people who worked in New York City, some at the World Trade Center.  We waited for news.   The phone rang at about 6:00 p.m. just before our church gathered to pray. “Todd Beamer was on flight 93 that went down in Pennsylvania.” 

Todd and his wife, Lisa, were in the small group that Angie and I led.  They were volunteers in the youth ministry that I directed.  They were young and fun and successful.  More than that, they were committed followers of Jesus.

The irony is that none of the people I know that work at the World Trade Center were killed that day.  All of them were away from New York that day on business.   Todd was a software salesman (a good one) who traveled a lot for work. He was in the wrong place at the wrong time.  Or was he?

Later we would learn of the heroic roll Todd played in fighting back against the terrorists and stopping their mission.  The plane never reached its intended target (the White House), but crashed in an empty field.  The last thing the phone operator heard Todd say (after reciting the Lord’s Prayer) was, “Let’s roll” – a favorite phrase of his.

Days later, I watched President Bush on television talk about Todd as an American hero, and then with a gesture, he introduced Lisa to the nation.   She stood to her feet and was greeted with thunderous applause.  She looked amazingly strong.  Lisa is beautiful, articulate, and resolute.  For a brief time, she became the face of hope for the nation.  As she was interviewed by Larry King, she clearly explained that her strength comes from Jesus Christ, and that Todd, too, knew the sustaining eternal presence of God. 

In addition to being the 10th anniversary of 911, today is also the first day of official NFL Sunday afternoon football.  Todd loved sports.  In between plays, I will gaze at my wife and kids and give thanks.  Our nation will again gather around television sets today, but for a very different reason.

The first four televised games of the 2011 NFL season were specifically chosen to commemorate the events of 911.

*At 1 p.m. there is a game between Pittsburgh and Baltimore — midway between those two cities is Shanksville, PA, the site of the crash of flight 93, that Todd was on.

*Later in the afternoon there is a game between the New York Giants and the Washington Redskins, played only a few miles from the site of the Pentagon plane crash/attack.

*This afternoon there is also a game between Carolina and Arizona, which will feature ceremonies honoring Pat Tillmon, the Cardinals player who left a lucrative pro-football career to join the military after the 911 attacks and who was killed in action in Iraq.

*Finally the Dallas Cowboys will play the New York Jets just across the Hudson River in full view of where the Twin Towers fell.

Whatever game you see it is a good day to hold hands with your loved ones as you enjoy the simple act of being together and watch a football game. Let’s roll.

  • Facebook
  • Twitter
  • Share
Posted in McKee Family, Random Thoughts | Tagged 911, Let's Roll, September 11, Todd Beamer | 1 Comment

Necessary Endings

By Scott McKee | Published: August 23, 2011

This summer I read Dr. Henry Cloud’s new book, Necessary Endings. I found multiple applications for me personally and professionally. (By the way, it was the first book I ever read electronically on a Kindle. I thought I might have trouble adjusting to a paperless book, but I have become a Kindle convert.)  Dr. Cloud says that endings are a necessary part of life. Life has seasons, stages, and phases. Businesses must sometimes let go of old product lines or even entire areas of business whose day has passed. Church leaders must be able to end yesteryear’s good ideas or involvements in order to create space for today’s strategies. Individuals must be able to let go of certain relationships, practices, and phases to create a sustainable rhythm of life. In order to move an organization forward, sometimes employers have to let an employee go.

Dr. Cloud’s key metaphor comes from the world of gardening. A healthy, vibrant, blooming rosebush is beautiful, but does not come into being without immense effort. The key to a healthy rosebush: pruning.

Pruning is a process of proactive endings. It turns out that a rosebush, like many other plants, cannot reach its full potential without a systematic process of pruning. The gardener intentionally and purposefully cuts off branches and buds that fall into any of three categories:

1. Healthy buds or branches that are not the best ones,

2. Sick branches that are not going to get well, and

3. Dead branches that are taking up space needed for the healthy ones to thrive. (Page 15)

In business and in life, we must execute the three types of necessary endings described above if we are to flourish. Life always produces more branches than it can sustain. Pruning your business, your church, and your life is necessary to direct limited resources (time, money, energy, talent, emotions) toward the things that help achieve your vision most. The book unpacks how to identify necessary endings and why we avoid them.

Questions to consider:

  1. What church programs in your church fall into each of the three categories (healthy but not the best, sick and not going to get well, dead)?
  2. What needs to be pruned out of your life in order for you to be fully engaged in the callings God has given you?
  3. What necessary endings are you avoiding?

I recommend Necessary Endings for anyone who leads anything. If you prefer a quick overview, these six-minute interviews with Henry Cloud by Pastor Steven Furtick of Elevation Church provide a helpful summary.

  1. Part one: Necessary Endings
  2. Part two: When should you end the program or fire someone?
  3. Part three: Are you hoping for change or just wishing?
  • Facebook
  • Twitter
  • Share
Posted in Culture, Leadership and Vision, Recommended Resources, Uncategorized | Tagged Henry Cloud, Necessary Endings | 4 Comments
« Older posts
  • Dr. Scott McKee

    I am the Senior Pastor at
    Ward Church in Northville, Michigan.
  • Follow Scott on Twitter

    • 10 Warning Signs of Inward Focus http://t.co/ro4fHfO7 via @sharethis 04:28:54 PM May 04, 2012 from Tweet Button
  • Recent Posts

    • A Tribute to Dr. Carole Halmekangas
    • What Did Jesus Say About Sex?
    • Video Blog 4/2/12 – Easter Week
  • Categories

    • Culture
    • EPC
    • Leadership and Vision
    • McKee Family
    • Q & A
    • Random Thoughts
    • Recommended Resources
    • Sermon Conversations
    • Theology
    • Uncategorized
    • Video Blog
  • Tags

    911 Adult Life Groups AND attractional Bible Blog change Community Outreach conference confession Conversation Dallas Willard E.A.C.H. Glorify Gospel Gospel in Life grace Grace Groceries Harvey Carey Henry Cloud justice Leadership Community Leadership Network Let's Roll missional Necessary Endings New Things Operation Christmas Child Outreach Pastor repentance school Search September 11 Serving Seven Peaks sin Small Groups Staff Suburban Legends Teaching Pastor Tim Keller Todd Beamer Values Worship
  • Recent Comments

    • Ken Casey on A Tribute to Dr. Carole Halmekangas
    • Marianne Hooker on A Tribute to Dr. Carole Halmekangas
    • Mickey Goto on A Tribute to Dr. Carole Halmekangas
    • Judy Koch on A Tribute to Dr. Carole Halmekangas
    • Patrick Nixon on A Tribute to Dr. Carole Halmekangas
    • Janet Evans on A Tribute to Dr. Carole Halmekangas
    • Linda Snelling on A Tribute to Dr. Carole Halmekangas
    • Renee Zwick on What Did Jesus Say About Sex?
    • Jeff Mitchell on Video Blog 4/2/12 – Easter Week
    • Beth Bruns on Video Blog 4/2/12 – Easter Week
  • Meta

    • Register
    • Log in
ScottMcKeeOnline.com
© 2010